Overcoming Self-Doubt as a Homemaker-Entrepreneur

When I first started offering my henna art services, my biggest enemy wasn't competition or a lack of customers. It was the little voice inside my own head. "Are you good enough?" "Will people pay for your art?" "What if they don't like it?" This self-doubt can be paralyzing, especially for us women who are often taught to put others first.

I am here to tell you that this feeling is normal, but you don't have to let it win. My journey taught me a few things about overcoming this fear, and I want to share them with you, my sisters.

First, remember why you started. For me, it was my son. Every time I felt scared, I would look at him and remember that my art was our path to a better future. Your "why" is your superpower. Is it to pay for your children's education? To have your own financial independence? To prove to yourself that you can do it? Hold on to that reason. It will fuel you when you feel like giving up.

Second, celebrate the small wins. Your first sale, your first positive review, your first returning customer—these are not small things! They are proof that you are on the right track. I used to keep a small notebook where I wrote down every compliment a client gave me. On bad days, I would read that notebook, and it would remind me of my value.

Third, don't compare your beginning to someone else's middle. When you look at other successful sellers, you are seeing their highlight reel, not the years of hard work, mistakes, and late nights it took to get there. Your journey is your own. Focus on making your product just a little bit better today than it was yesterday. Focus on making your next customer a little bit happier than the last. That is how you grow.

Finally, find your community. Being an entrepreneur can feel lonely, but you are not alone. Connect with other sellers on platforms like this one. Share your struggles and your successes. Ask for advice. Offer help when you can. A supportive word from someone who understands can make all the difference.

Starting my business was the scariest thing I've ever done. But it was also the most empowering. It taught me that my skills have value and that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. You are too. Take a deep breath, believe in yourself, and take that first small step. I am cheering for you.